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Six CD programs, including:    Goodfinding    Elegant Aging    Sacred Sexuality    Love, Anger & Forgiveness    Healthy Anger and Your Health    Meditation Emotion & Healing

Good People Doing Good
Today, millions of people all over the world showed small acts of love and kindness and went out of their way to help others, with no recognition or praise. Many thousands committed acts of heroism which went unacknowledged. Someone spent time with an ailing or elderly person in need. A father set aside his demanding agenda to go fishing or play catch with his son. A mother labored tirelessly to care for her family, knowing her efforts would be unacknowledged. A little boy spent hours making a special get well card for his older sister who won't let him hang around with her and her friends. A child found a wounded bird and took it home to a father willing to stop what he was doing to mend its broken wing.

Your Own Magnificence
Marianne Williamson has said that our greatest fear is facing our own magnificence, our inner light and beauty. When you catch but one small glimpse of this pure, radiant being that is your true original self, you will be engulfed in unconditional love. This is what we want, and what we fear the most. We want it because it shows us who we really are. We fear it because its essence of love washes away the familiar illusions of who we thought we were. The freedom and responsibility of knowing your magnificence is daunting, exhilarating, uplifting and energizing. Become the spiritual warrior you were born to be and discover the Holy Grail shining in the depths of your very soul. This is the spiritual side of anger management.

The Intelligence of Love
Love and compassion make us smarter. This is a totally new insight arising from the brain research surrounding emotional intelligence. When we move from the fear-based activity of critical analysis toward acknowledgment, appreciation and love, we actually use more of our brilliant minds. People with anger management problems really need this positive focus. Do the people you love know how much you love them? Do you have an optimistic view of human life on planet earth? Do you have faith in the development of human consciousness? Do you have compassion for the lost, suffering and down-trodden souls around you? The closer you can move to answering yes to each of these questions, the more intelligent you will become, and the better off the world will be. 

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WHAT YOU PAY ATTENTION TO GROWS!

Your mind is always finding something to focus on. A big part of anger management is a matter of choosing what you think about and pay attention to. Finding the good inside you and all around you will make you smarter, healthier and kinder to others. Finding the not-so-good will add to your worry, frustration and anger.

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Our focus here is to help you in the process of re-training your brain to look at what's good, right and working, instead of being caught up in the fear-producing problem-solving/task-orientation process that holds millions in its grip.

When you are practicing Goodfinding and the Art Of Appreciation, your heart works better, you breathe more deeply, and more oxygen flows to your brain making you smarter. You will experience more positive emotions, and you will naturally be more kind and understanding with others. To get started, read some Goodfinding Commentaries, check out the current Goodfinding Newsletter, or preview some of our audio programs.

You might also want to sign up for the Healing Anger newsletter or check out our web site devoted exclusively to anger management at: AngerManagementResource.com. You will find valuable information on anger management techniques, anger management worksheets, anger management downloads, as well as anger counseling and products for children and adolescents.

Read these uplifting GOODFINDING commentaries:    Natural Joy    Magnificent You    Everyday Angels    The Sacred Moment    The Artist Within You    The Intelligence of Love    The Economics of Emotional Energy

Read any of the articles listed below by clicking on the title :    Improve Your Memory With Goodfinding Practices    Alcoholism Early Warning Signs    Building Healthy Boundaries    Elegant Aging    Love, Anger and Forgiveness    Stages of the Grief Process    Healthy Grieving Techniques    Healthy Anger and Your Health    How To Build Health And Happiness    What You Pay Attention To Grows    Create A Magnificent World For Yourself    Mastering The Fear Mind    Believe It And You Will See It    The Power Of Love And Support

Your Unique Self
Every snowflake is completely unique. How much more amazing that there never has been and never will be another person exactly like you. Our greatest teachers throughout time have told us that there exists a divine purpose that each of us was designed to fulfill. This would mean that each one of us…that you…have a totally unique gift to offer the world. No one can give us what you can. You were born with a divine purpose on this planet at this time. You have a role to play that no other can fill. We need you. You are the only one who can offer that precious gift you were born to give. On behalf of joy and love everywhere, take the time and effort to explore the universe of your inner self.

The Best Health Care
Many of us, as modern consumers in the health care industry, have experienced the confusion and insecurity of facing physical ailments and not knowing what to do. For those interested in a broad-based holistic approach to health care, the myriad choices and possible treatment approaches can be daunting. To face this challenge successfully, learn to trust your inner physician, the brilliant body-mind complex that has been accumulating data on your functioning at a rate of a million bits of information per second since the moment you were born. Combine this with a strong faith in your friends, family, medical consultants and Creator, and you just may have the best possible health care team in the world.

Your Life Story
You are the main character in your own life story. You also play a leading role in the stories of many people whose lives you touch. Do the people close to you know your story? Have you taken the time to look for the value and beauty in your own life experience? You are sitting on a gold mine of brilliance and wisdom, which you can access through writing and telling the story of your life thus far. Carl Jung suggests that children live out the untold stories of their parents. Are you living out someone else’s story, or is someone living yours? Find the brilliant gold and healing in the storehouse of your memory, and become co-author of your story, from this point forward.